10 Dating Tips I Wish I'd Followed While I Was Single

Dating advice from a married woman who hopes you don't waste as much of your single life as she did.

When I started seeing my husband, aka the first guy I wasn't embarrassed to tell my therapist about, I was gobsmacked to realize how much I hadn't known about dating before then.
In fact, I'd been going about being single all wrong. I didn't have very much fun at it, which is depressing since I didn't pair up until my 30s. Besides, so much luck was involved in my finding my match that there are probably more alternate universes where I'm still living solo than where I'm married.

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I realize that my past experiences have made me who I am today, but I still wish I could go back in time and have a sisterly chat with poor, clueless, "younger me." I could've written three novels, started a business and hiked the Appalachian Trail with all the wasted time and energy. It's too late for me, but maybe you can learn from what I wish I knew then.
1. Finding a romantic partner is only one of many goals you can have at once. There's a difference between making something a priority and having an obsession. No one wants to be the Captain Ahab of the dating world.
2. When you like a guy, and your mutual friends have multiple anecdotes about him projectile vomiting after excessive drinking, you need to rethink the infatuation. You didn't like it when your godson hurled on you, and he was a toddler. 4 Signs You're Dating A 'Man-Boy,' Not A Man
3. It's not about getting someone to think you're good enough for them. It’s about finding someone you can stand to spend a ridiculous amount of time with. It's about finding the puzzle piece you fit with and the Ernie to your Bert.
4. Work on your gaydar. It'll make your life much easier.

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5. Sometimes boyfriends have little annoying habits. And sometimes they have small behaviors that indicate a complete lack of respect. If you wouldn't let your friend's sweetie talk to her that way, don't put up with it yourself.

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Posted at 21:41 |  by Unknown

Ladki Patane Ke 101 Formulas

Formula 1
Ladki ko pahle dekho aur wo jab aapke samne dekhe to use ishara maro ki uske gaal par kuch hai aur jab wo gaal ko saaf kare to ishare se bolo ki iss gaal par nahi baju ke gaal par hai, this is best formula in the world..is tarah se maine kai ladkiyo ko pataya hai.

Formula 2
Ladkiyon se usi topic par baat-chit karo jis me use baat karne me maza aaye, isse wo aapse bahut samay tak baat kar sakti hai. aur aapki Dosti Pyar me bhi badal sakti hai.

Formula 3

mere ek Dost ki 56 Girl Friend hai. usne un sabhi ko Patane ke liye jo Formula use kiya hai wo hai- "Ladkiyon se hamesha unke baare me hi baate karo". wo hamesha Ladkiyon se unke hi baare me baate karte rahta tha aur Ladkiyan Pat gai.


Formula 4

agar Ladki ko patana hai to pahle uske pass jao, uska picha karo, us ko dekhte raho, then kuch dino baad usko ignore karna shuru kardo bus wo pareshan ho jayegi us ke baad wo khud aap mein intrest legi then u can go ahead.



Formula 5

Ladkiyan agar group me ho to aap unhe (Jinhe Patana hai) hi dekhte rahe, aisa karne se wo bhi aap ke taraf attract ho jayegi.


Formula 6

Hamesha Ladki ke aankho se aankhen milakar hi baat kare, isse Ladkiyan impress hoti hai.


Formula 7

Ladkiyon se jab bhi mile ek pyari si smile jarur kare.



Formula 8

Hamesha unki help ke liye taiyaar rahe.



Formula 9

unka Birth day kabhi naa bhule aur unhe koi Beautiful gift jarur de, yaa ek Rose.



Formula 10

uus par kabhi bhi gussa na kare, Hamesha pyaar se hi pesh aaye.



Formula 12

unse hamesha achche Dress me hi mile, yaad rakhe aap ko bhi attractive dikhna padega.



Formula 13

agar aap ek hi class me hai to unko Study me yaa Notes banane me Help karte rahe, aisa karne se aap unke aur bhi karib aate jayenge.



Formula 14

Aap jab bhi unse mile unhe Hi yaa Hello yaa Shake hand karna na bhule, isse apna pan badata jayega.



Formula 15

Ladkiyon ko Good personality wale Ladke bahut achche lagte hai, issliye koi achchi si Gym me exercise kar apni Body ko attractive banaye. isse Ladkiyan aapko dekhte hi impress ho jayengi.


Formula 16

ny SMS yaa Love SMS yaa Friendship SMS bhejte rahe. aisa karne se aap unki yaado me bane rahenge.


Formula 17

Friendship aur Valentines day ko unhe hamesha wish kare aur ek Pyara sa Gift jarur de. aisa karna najdiki badane ke liye bahut jaruri hai.



Formula 18

Ladkiyon se hamesha Romantic mood me hi baat kare, aise baat kare jisse unhe lage ki aap ko unse baat karke bahut hi maza aa raha hai.



Formula 19

Hamesha unko Respect de, isse aap unki nazaron me ek achche Ladke bane rahenge, jo Ladki patane ke liye bahut hi jaruri hai.



Formula 20

Ladkiyon se kabhi mat sharmaiye, Maximum Ladki sharmile Ladko ko pasand nahi karti hai, issliye hamesha frankly unse mile.


Formula 21

apni Personality perfect rakhne ke liye hamesha chust durust dikhe, na ki sust yaa kaamchor. Ladkiyan furtile Ladko ko hi pasand karti hai.



Formula 22
agar Ladki Filmo ki shaukin hai to usse aksar Film ke hi bare me baate kare, isse wo aapse apni feeling bantkar khush aur impress hongi.



Formula 23

aap apne din ki shuruwat unhe ek mast Good Morning SMS bhejkar karen. (click here for Good Morning SMS/Shayari collection)



Formula 24

Raat ko sone se pahle ek Pyara sa Good Night SMS bhejkar bhi aap unhe impress kar sakte hai. (click here for Good Night SMS/Shayari collection)



Formula 25
Maximum Ladkiyan Clean shave kiye hue Ladko ko Like karti hai issliye sexy dikhne ke liye shave karte rahe.


Formula 26

Ladkiyon ke samne hamesha apna Cina taan kar chale, aisa karne se Mardangi jhalkti hai aur Ladkiyan Mardon ko hi pasand karti hai.



Formula 27

Ladkiyan darpok ladko ko pasand nahi karti hai issliye aap darna chhod de aar Ladkiyon se ek nidar ki tarah react kare.



Formula 28

agar Ladki aapse kuch mange to use jarur pura karne ki koshish kare, isse Ladkiyan aapse itni impress hongi jiski aap imagine bhi nahi kar sakte.



Formula 29
Unke Birth day par sabse pehle aap wish kare, isse wo aapko kabhi nahi bhul payengi.



Formula 30

Hamesha unse kisi na kisi bahane milte rahe, isse aap unki nazaron aur yaado me aksar bane rahenge.


Formula 31

unhe Dinner ya Lunch ke liye offer kare, ager wo agree ho jaye to unke pasand ke hotel me unke pasand ki dish order kare. wo turant aap par fida ho jayegi.



Formula 32

Ladkiyon se pehle Dosti karo baad me unse apne Dil ki baat kahna, Pyar ke mamle me patience se kaam le.



Formula 33

jab wo aap se baat kare to unki baato ko unki aankon me aankhen dalkar dhyanpurvak sune.



Formula 34

Agar Ladki aapki neighbor ho to roz subah unko dekhte hi Good Morning jarur kahe.



Formula 35

Agar Ladki aapki Class met ho to unse shake hand jarur kare.


Formula 36

Agar aap unke sath antakhari khele to unko target karke Loveable song jarur gaye.



Formula 37

Agar wo aapse raste par Lift mange to aap use jarur de, aur aise react kare jaise aap bahut jaruri kaam se ja rahe the Lekin unke liye aapne jaruri kaam chhod kar unhe Lift di, isse wo aap se Impress hue bina nahi rah sakegi aur aap use aasani se pata lenge.



Formula 38

agar wo koi problem me ho to sabse pehle unki help ke liye aap pahuche, ye Ladki patane ke liye jaruri sabak hai.



Formula 39

Ladkiyan bahut emotional hoti hai isliye unki emotion ki hamesha sammaan kare.



Formula 40

agar Ladki koi bhari kaam kar rahi hai to aap unki madad jarur kare. kaam me hath batane se Pyar badata hai.


Formula 41

agar School/College me unki Gaadi ka Petrol khatam ho gaya ho to aap apni Gaadi ka Petrol nikalkar jarur de.



Formula 42

unse hamesha hansi mazak karte rahe, Lekin ek limit me hi.



Formula 43

agar Ladki kahi paidal ja rahi ho to aap unhe apni Bike me Pahucha dene ka offer jarur kare, aisa impression jamane ke liye badiya mauka hai.



Formula 44

aap kisi Ladki ko bahut pyar karte hai to apni feeling ko Pink color ke paper par likhkar unhe jarur de, yaani unhe Love Letter likhe.



Formula 45

Maximum Ladkiyan Funny Ladke pasand karti hai, isliye aapko bhi Funny banana padega.


Formula 46
Jab bhi aap Ladkiyon se mile to unhe ek Mazedar Jokes jarur sunaye, yaa kuch Funny Shayari hi.


Formula 47

agar wo Morning walk karne jati hai to aap bhi uske sath sath walk karne jaye, subah ke mast mahaul me aap unse Mazedar baate kar unhe impress kar sakte hai.



Formula 48

agar unke paas cell phone hai to kisi bhi bahane unse Contact karte rahiye, aur SMS bhi bhejte rahiye.



Formula 49

agar unka tabiyat thik naa ho to unse milne jarur jaye, aur unka haal chaal jarur puche.



Formula 50

apne Birth Day me unhe invite karna na bhule, aur aaye to ye kahna "aap hi ka intzar kar raha tha, ab aap aa gai ho ab mai Cake katunga."


Formula 51

unke diye hue Gift ki tarif jarur kare, tarif karna Deep me Ghee dalne ke saman hai.



Formula 52

agar unka Mail ID aap jante ho to unko Mail karte rahe aur ye ehsas dilaye ki aap dinbhar unki hi khayalo me khoye rahte hai.



Formula 53

agar aap ko apne Padosan ko patana ho to unke ghar aate jate rahe aur jarurat padne par unki madad karte rahe.



Formula 54

agar Padosan ka bhai bhi hai to, Pehle uske bhai se Dosti karo, uske bhai ki nazaro me aap ek samajhdar Ladke ki tarah raho, isse aapka unke ghar aana jana laga rahega.



Formula 55

Har insan apni tarif sunana chahta hai, isliye aap Ladki ke har Chijo ki tarif karte rahe.



Formula 56

Ladkiyon se hamesha Confidence ke sath hi baat kare.



Formula 57

agar aap kisi Ladki ko Patana chahte hai to usse baat karne ki koshish kare. aur apni feeling ko kisi din Letter me likhkar unhe de do. isse Ladki aapke Himmat ki Kayal ho jayegi.



Formula 58

agar unka koi Nick name ho to aap unko Nick name se hi pukare. isse aap unko apne se lagenge.



Formula 59

Jab bhi aap unse mile to unko uske pasand ki Chocolate jarur de. Ladkiyon ke shauk pure karne se unko Patane me aasani hoti hai.

Formula 60
agar Ladki ice-cream khane ki shaukin ho to unko jarur isske liye offer karte rahe.


Formula 61

Ladkiyon ko kabhi bhi ghur kar naa dekhe balki unhe hamesha Pyaar bhari nazaron se hi dekhe, Ladki aapki Diwani ho jayegi.


Formula 62

agar aap kisi Ladki ko Propose karna chahte ho to, aap unka ek hath pakadkar unhe Red Rose dekar Propose kare. wo aap ka Proposal jarur accept kar legi.


Formula 63

unki har ada ki tarif jarur kare, wo jarur khush hongi.



Formula 64

Propose karna Mard ka kaam hai iss liye aap ye mat soche ki Ladki aakar aapko Propose karengi, Pahle aapko hi Propose karna hoga.


Formula 65

agar wo kabhi aapke ghar ke samne se gujre to use apne ghar jarur bulayen, aur Chaay ya Coffee jarur pilaye. isse wo aapke mehman navaji ki kayal ho jayegi.


Formula 66

agar aap unka ghar jante hai to Holi ke din uske ghar unke sath Holi khelne jana na bhule aur unke sath khub hansi mazak kare.

Formula 67
agar aap Party me kisi Ladki ko Patana chahte ho to, aap sabse pehle unse jakar mile aur apna Introduction de, isse dhire-dhire baat chit ka silsila shuru hoga aur aap use Pata lenge.

Formula 68

aap ki Padosan agar School/College jane ke liye nikal rahi ho to aap unke sang hole aur unse baat karte hue aap bhi jaye. aisa Continue 3 Dino tak kare aur 4th Din mat jana, wo 5th Din aapse jarur puchegi kal kyu nahi aaye. aur iss tarah mulakat se aap use Pata hi lenge.

Formula 69
Ladki Patane ke liye Confidence bahur hi jaruri hai isliye aap Pahle apne aap pe bharosa rakhiye ki aap use Pata kar hi Dumm lenge, aur aap apne Confidence ke bal par hi use Pata lenge.

Formula 70

Ladkiyan Patane ke liye apne aap me kuch quality paida kare, jaise Singing, Dancing, Body Building, Acting. quality hone se Ladki Patana bahut asan ho jata hai.


Formula 71

agar aap me koi buri aadat ho to use chhod de, bure Ladke pasand nahi kiye jate hai, isliye apni buri aadato ko chhod de.


Formula 72

Ladkiyon ke samne kabhi bhi Smoking na kare aur na hi Drinking. ye baat hamesha yaad rakhe Ladkiyan Good Manners wale Ladko ko hi Pasand karti hai.

Formula 73

Ladkiyon ke samne kabhi bhi Gandi baate naa kare isse aapka unke samne ek bad boy ki image ban jaygi. aap unke samne Talented person ki tarah hi Behavior kare.

Formula 74

agar aap jante hai ki wo kis Film Hero ki Fane hai to aap usi Hero ke jaisi Hare Style rakhe aur usi ki tarah dikhne ki khoshish kare. Ladki aapse impress hogi hi.

Formula 75

aap hamesha unse sach bolne ki koshish kare, isse aap unhe sachche Ladke lagenge. jo ki impress karne ke liye jaruri hai.


Formula 76

aap unke prati hamesha vafadar rahe, har Ladkiyan ek vafadar sathi ki talash me rehti hai.

Formula 77

agar aapke makaan ke kiraye daar ko Patana ho to uske kuch mahine ka Kiraya maaf karde. isse aapki unse najdikiyan badengi. aur wo aapka ehsan mand ho jaengi.


Formula 78

Ladkiyan hazirjawab Ladkon ko Pasand karti hai issliye aap hazirjawab dene wale person baniye.

Formula 79

Kai Ladkiyan filmo ki baate karna bahut pasand karti hai, aise Ladkiyon se aap unke pasand ki filmo ke baare me baate karke unhe impress kar sakte hai.

Formula 80

intelligent Ladko se Ladkiyan impress hoti hai issliye aap apni Study improve karke Ladkiyon ko impress kar sakte hai.


Formula 81

Ladkiyan Patane ke liye aapka General Knowledge Strong hona chahiye, GK Ladkiyon ko Patane me bahut hi Helpful hota hai.


Formula 82

Ladkiyan saaf suthri image wale Ladko ko Like karti hai issliye aap jhagde-jhanjhaton se dur hi rahe.


Formula 83

aap jis Ladki ko Patana chahte hai use agar koi pareshaan kar raha ho to aap us Ladki ki madad kare, isse wo Ladki aapse turant Pat jayegi.

Formula 84

agar wo koi khaas type ke Book read karne ki shaukin ho to aap use wo Book Gift kare (for exa. Comics, Film Magazines etc.). wo aapse jarur impress hongi aur aap unhe easily Pata lenge.

Formula 85

hamesha koi badiya Body Spray (Perfume) lagaya kare. aapke Body ki khushbu Ladkiyon ko aapki aur attract karegi.


Formula 86

agar wo aapki kuch help kare to usse thanks jarur kahe. impression jamane ke liye ye chhoti-chhoti formalities bahut kaam aati hai.

Formula 87

agar aapke paas Bike ho to use hamesha saaf suthri rakhe, Ladkiyan Saaf suthri Bike me hi ghumna Pasand karti hai. issliye apne Bike ko attractive banaaye.

Formula 88

Aap Mobile set aisa rakhe jo aapki Personality ko suet kare. achhe Mobile set rakh kar Ladkiyon ko apni taraf attract kiya ja sakta hai.


Formula 89

apne cell phone ke wallpaper me unka Photo set kar ke rakhe, aur use dikhaye wo aapse jarur impress hongi.


Formula 90

aap kisi din unse ye kah kar ki "aap mujhe aapna autograph denge to ye meri khushnasibi hogi". aap unka autograph mangkar unko impress kar sakte hai.

Formula 91
apne cell phone me koi Romantic Ring tone hi rakhe, Romantic Ring tone sunkar Ladkiyan jarur impress hoti hai. Ladkiyon ko Patane ke liye unhe impress karna bahut hi jaruri hai.

Formula 92
unke ghar ke paas se jab bhi gujre unhe dekhne ki koshish jarur kare. unhe ye ehsas dilana jaruri hai ki aap unme interest rakhte hai.

Formula 93
agar aap unse kahi mile aur unke sath me unke Parents ho to unke Paanv (charan) chhue. Ladki turant aapse impress hogi (agar Ladki JaanPehchan wali ho ussi condition me hi).

Formula 94
agar wo age me aapse chhoti ho phir bhi aap unse "AAP" kahkar hi baat kare. unhe lagna chahiye ki aap unka bahut respect karte hai.

Formula 95
unke sath kabhi bhi bahas nahi kare hamesha unki baat ka sath de. tabhi unko Pata sakte hai.


Formula 96
har Ladki apne Khubsurti ki tarif sunana chahti hai issliye aap unki khubsurti ka hamesha tarif karte rahe. ye Ladki Patane ka Super hit Formula hai.

Formula 97
aap unhe hamesha ye kahe ki wo Duniya ki sabse Beautiful Ladki hai. wo aap se hamesha khush rahegi aur easily set ho jayegi.

Formula 98
agar kabhi unke sath Film jane ka mauka mile to koi Romantic Film hi dekhne jaye, unke sath Romantic Film dekhi matlab Ladki Patti.

Formula 99

unse kabhi bhi gandi baate na kare unse achhi baate hi kare, tabhi kamyabi milegi.



Formula 100

aap unse ye kahe ki aap unke liye kuch bhi kar sakte hai, wo aap se impress hogi hi.



Formula 101

aap unke sath hamesha unke baare me hi baate kare, aur unko special hone ka ehsas jarur dilaye, isse wo aapki Diwani ho jayegi.


Formula 102

Ladki jab bhi aap ke saamne dekhe to usse ye lagne do ki tum uski taraf ho, wo jab tumhare paas aaye to uski aakho ki taraf dekho aur kuch bolo jo Dil se nikle vo us waqt chali jayegi fir uske taraf mat dekhna wo khud tumhare paas aaker kahgi ki tum chahte kya ho, tum sidha bol dena ki wo ladki tum ho jiska intezar kar raha tha tum mein wahi dekhi jo mujhe barso se intezar tha.
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Posted at 21:37 |  by Unknown

Ladki ko Propose Karne Ke 5 Best Tarike

Pyar mein aksar logon ke dil toot jaate hainkyunki wo apne pyar ka izhaar sahi tarike se nahi kar paateAb aapko hum de rahe hain 5 aise upayjinhe aap apne pasandeeda Vyakti par apnayenge to pyaar ki naiya ko paar kar jaayenge.:cool
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1. Hamesha akele mein propose kareinhaan bolne ki sambhavna 50% bad jaati hai, aur agar naa bol diya to beizzati kam lagti hai.
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2. Kisi hindi film ke hero ki tarah apne ghutno par baithkar apne pyar ka izhaar karoYadi use hindi filmein pasand hongi to tumhara kaam ban sakta hai.
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3. Pehle usse dosti badhaoFir dosti ka fayda uthakar use apne dil ka haal jata doYadi dosti pakki hogi to prem kahani mein koi baadha na aayegi.
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4. Use samandar ki sair karane le jaaoAur beech samandar mein usse kaho ki tum use kitna chahte hoYadi usne haan kaha to theek, warna use wahin samandar mein chhodkar waapas chale aao.
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5. Jise tum prem karte ho use apne prem ka izhaar karo aur uski best friend ko ek laal gulaab ka phool uphaar mein de do Dono ko ye tension hogaki kahin tum kisi aur ko apna dil na de doaur isi baat ka faayda tumko milna nischit hai.

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Posted at 21:26 |  by Unknown